Tuesday, February 15, 2011

WE are all lucky

Howdy---I just realized that I needed to rant a bit. As a woman, I share about my life. Or maybe it is just me. So, I share what my honey does for me that is sweet. AND don't get me wrong, he is very sweet! AND I consider myself extremely lucky.

BUT what I have noticed and this is where the ranting comes in, is that men don't post this kind of stuff, generally speaking. And when women post happy things that their sweetie does, all the women comment and say how lucky the woman is and how the man is so sweet, etc!

I know this is not a contest, but the woman may do ten times more things than the man but he gets the credit for being sweet and we are the lucky one! It is just assumed that we as women must do all these things. Does she get any credit? How about telling the man how lucky he is to have such a woman!!

So, girlfriends, yes, I am the lucky one because I am in a wonderful relationship with a wonderful and sweet man. But why don't you tell me that he is lucky, too. Jim and I talk about how blessed and lucky we BOTH are but sometimes just saying it out loud can be a good thing. And maybe I am having a tough day and I need to hear it, too!!

Thanks for listening. WE all deserve to hear what amazing beings we are. Just for BEing.......

love and light to US all!!

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